blind spider leg

I’m someplace unfamiliar at night. Through the whole dream, every person has both genders, and moves fluidly back and forth from having a female or male body. It’s weird, even in the dream. 

There is a guy there who looks like D. But he is also a spider. I hurt the spider, thinking I killed it, but actually just removing one level of legs (it’s a daddy long legs). Then the spider turns into D. again, but now D. is blind. I help lead him around just a little, then I rush off.